To enable you to pray more intelligently for all missionaries is the goal in this series of "How to Pray for Missionaries" posts that I plan to post over the next few weeks. The idea for this series came from another missionary who had a pamphlet on his table entitled, "How to Pray for Missionaries." And wouldn't you know it: I've forgotten my fellow missionary's name.
My attention was immediately drawn to his first prayer request: Love for God. You may be surprised to hear that it is possible for missionaries to quit even attempting to love God and yet stay on the field indefinitely. It is likely that missionaries for whom you will pray today are struggling to love God as they serve in isolation and danger, and yet missionaries find it hard to say, "Pray for me; I don't love God anymore."
There are several reasons that missionaries struggle to love God. The first I call "The Martha Complex;" that is, being very busy working for God and forgetting that we ought to be sitting at His feet learning from Him, adoring Him, and praising Him. Missionaries can so busy preaching, teaching, giving, cleaning, confronting, and translating that they quit making time each day to study his word for their personal benefit and pray to align their will with God's will.
Sometimes missionaries fail to love God because their struggles are so intense. Illness; discouragement at apparent fruitlessness; bitterness over a friend's or spouse's offense; the pain of loss; isolation; the daily, fierce, spiritual warfare—only those who have lived outside their culture to serve God can fully identify with these factors. Sometimes we blame God for our circumstances. Other times, we begin to isolate ourselves from others and doggedly continue working for God while wondering at the reason He has "mistreated us." We murmur and complain to those closest to us, discouraging them.
Sometimes missionaries pretend to love God but their heart is not in it. Once established in a ministry, financially supported, and rarely observed, a missionary can write about his ministries as if he still loves God and really be playing a part.
I think my fellow missionary sums the prayer request up best when he writes: "Pray that your missionaries' love for the Lord will deepen, and that love for Him will always be their prime motivation for service."